Ask and You Shall Receive

About a year ago someone I follow on Twitter was saying how their major site had been hacked and that they had cleaned it all up but Google was still treating them like persona non grata. They were at a loss what to do. So I sent a tweet to @mattcutts and asked if he could do a friend a favour by explaining what was still wrong with his site. Matt answered straight away.

Sometimes the most obvious things are the most difficult to perceive.

Like last week where I was all in a huff ‘n’ puff about why was it that people all around me were forming these great business partnerships and yet none seemed forthcoming to me. Now usually my self esteem has oodles of spare to get me over rough patches but the day job is really, REALLY unpleasant at the moment and my reserves of fairy dust are low. So I said to myself, why waste time speculating… just freaking ASK. So I did.

I follow 200-odd people on Twitter and so scoured through the list and picked 24 people that I admire, respect and are go-gettin’ types. I set up a Survey Monkey survey asking 5 basic questions.

1. Would they do business with me

2. Had they ever thought of doing business with me

3. What are my strengths

4. What are my weaknesses

5. What advice would they offer me

In the first 24 hours 12 responded and in 48 hours 14 have. Which in survey terms is an awesome response ratio.

So I got answers – great answers!

You might want to give this a go too. make sure you are wearing your thick skin rain-coat because when you ask for brutally honest opinion, some of it it will sting (but only because ALREADY KNOW :)

More Odd Ad Placement

This time a vibrator in….coffee beans? Like it has just fallen out of someone’s kitchen canister…. er…wha?

lelo vibrator coffee beans

Odd Ad Placement

What’s this an ad for? If you hadn’t heard of Market Samurai how would you know you wanted it? I find this really odd…

market samurai ad

The New Ism

This isn’t business related in any way. It is a subject that has bothered me for some time and daily there are stories that add to my ill ease about the path western society is heading. The new ism is fatism (or obeseism if you like). Like racism and sexism, in many cases the victims have no say over what their weight is and yet the media (and many of us) celebrates deriding this group of people.

The issue isn’t necessarily eating habits. In the 1970′s the average British/Australian diet was 100′s of calories higher than the current one. Exercise wasn’t “exercise” back then, it was playing outside till the lights went out; or if a teen hitting the disco and burning off the zillions of calories you consumed during the day. Worrying about weight was not something we as a society was overly concerned about.

Children today are not permitted free play like back in the day. They are ferried too and from music and ballet classes by car. God forbid letting your child walk to school – what are you? some kind of child neglecting parent? don’t you know there are thousands of pedophiles out there just dying to get their hands on your kids>!>! The calories may be fewer, but so is the activity.

These children grow up a size that they have no control over, and by the time they have control the damage is done. I was listening to an interview on ABC Radio about a 27 year old woman who had lap band surgery. She was 107 kilos and had been dieting since she was 7. After 20 YEARS of messing around with her metabolism it was completely stuffed and the only solution was invasive, potentially dangerous, surgery.  This woman has as much chance of naturally changing her size as a blck person does at changing the colour of their skin.

So I wonder whether the next time the TV starts telling you that the obese are causing damage to the health system and the economy whether you will continue to buy into the new ism.