It All DOES Matter

If you are following my Tweets you will know that yesterday morning my ex-husband and father of my two children, died suddenly at the age of 47.

I have mentioned him before . His alcoholism was a large factor in me learning some of life’s hard lessons.

I learned always have a plan B (and C and D if you could).

That only YOU can save yourself, relying on others teaches you nothing but how to rely on others; they can help give you strength but in the end all effort must come from you.

And that everything you do should matter, and how it matters is up to you.

Although my ex-husband was a great example of how not to live, I will always attribute some of my best traits to having known him.